Y’all know I’m a huge Tyler Perry fan. Through his iconic character Madea, he is trying to teach women to become emPOWERed ~ to stand tall for ourselves ~ to develop an AT-tit-TUDE. In this classic photo, she’s got her cast-iron skillet out to teach her granddaughters how to say, “hell to the NO!” If … Read more
Filed under Violence Against Women · Tagged with activist, child abuse, domestic violence, DV statistics, emPOWERment, Madea, political activism, sexual abuse, Tyler Perry, VAWA, VAWA funding, War on Women
Posted by Anne Caroline Drake on April 27, 2012 · 2 Comments
On April 26, 2003, Tacoma (WA) Chief of Police David Brame shot his estranged wife Crystal Judson Brame in front of their young children in a Gig Harbor, WA shopping center parking lot. Det. Ed Troyer, who is spokesperson for the Pierce County (WA) sheriff’s department, knew or should have known what Chief Brame was … Read more
Filed under DV in the News · Tagged with abuse of power, Crystal Judson Brame, David Brame, domestic violence, Ed Troyer, KOMO, Pierce County WA, police misconduct, Rob McKenna, sexual abuse, Tacoma News Tribune
Posted by Anne Caroline Drake on April 20, 2012 · 1 Comment
This weekend I’m celebrating the quarter million visitor milestone for Navigating Unchartered Waters. The little blog that started out with just 20 visitors/day on V-Day, 2009 has grown up. Visitors now come from over 125 countries around the world! It is a dream come true. I feel profoundly blessed and humbled by your support and loyalty. … Read more
Filed under Journey to Joy (J2J) · Tagged with abuse recovery, activist, Barbara Bentley, child abuse, dating abuse, domestic violence, emotional abuse, emPOWERment, Ginny Nicarthy, Julie Owens, Karen Welch, Kit Gruelle, Mildred Muhammad, Nancy Carroll, Rita Anita Linger, self-care, sexual abuse, survivor stories, Vernetta Cockerham
Posted by Anne Caroline Drake on March 14, 2012 · 2 Comments
I don’t have a Ph.D. in Psychology, but I’m fairly certain the medical brass at Joint Base Lewis-McChord (JBLM) in Tacoma, WA couldn’t or wouldn’t recognize PTSD if it bit them in the butt. Lt. Col. Robert E. Underwood was ordered to undergo an involuntary psychological exam after he allegedly claimed to have hired a hit man … Read more
Filed under DV in the News · Tagged with abuse of power, CNN, Complex-PTSD, DC Sniper, domestic violence, gun violence, JBLM, John Allen Muhammad, Joint Base Lewis-McChord, Kara Underwood, KIRO, KOMO, Lori Kooiman, Lt. Col. Robert E. Underwood, Lt. Col. Shawn Reed, Madigan Army Medical Center, Mark Lindquist, MSNBC, parental alienation syndrome, PAS, Pierce County WA, Post Traumatic Stress Disorder, PTSD, sexual abuse, Staff Sgt. Robert Bales
Today is Lorraine Schaffer Haake’s birthday. Before she posted this hysterical photo on Facebook, she took time from her celebration to share an invitation to a protest on Monday morning, March 5 at the Sacramento (CA) County Courthouse (see below for details ~ Fox 40 reported the arraignment is on March 15 rather than March 5). … Read more
Filed under Judicial Hall of Shame, Uncategorized · Tagged with abuse of power, activist, child abuse, child custody, child molesters, Daniel Horton, family court reform, judicial misconduct, protest, Sacramento California, sexual abuse
Posted by Anne Caroline Drake on March 3, 2012 · 4 Comments
I live in one of the most affluent counties in the U.S. The lights are on at the local domestic violence shelter, but nobody’s home. So, I shouldn’t have been surprised to hear at a Thursday morning breakfast meeting on homelessness that 80% of the homeless in our county are survivors of domestic violence. The … Read more
Posted by Anne Caroline Drake on February 24, 2012 · Leave a Comment
Sheriff Dave Reichert interrogating Green River serial killer Gary Ridgway You’re an evil, murdering, monstrous, cowardly man. – Sheriff David Reichert Two men. Same experience. Different choices. One chose the path of evil. The other chose the path of love and courage. Their lives intersected for twenty years in King County, WA. Gary Leon Ridgway … Read more
Filed under Book Review · Tagged with activist, Book Review, books, child abuse, Gary Leon Ridgway, incest, Rep. Dave Reichert, Serial killer, sexual abuse, survivor stories, The Capture of the Green River Killer
Posted by Anne Caroline Drake on February 14, 2012 · Leave a Comment
Happy V-Day, dear readers and subscribers! Wow! It is hard to believe this all started just three years ago today. You all have changed and expanded my life dramatically. Thank you! Bless you! It is hard to imagine my life without the friendships and professional connections we have created, nurtured, and sustained. … Read more
Filed under Journey to Joy (J2J) · Tagged with abuse recovery, artist's date, Bitzie, child abuse, Complex-PTSD, dating abuse, domestic violence, emotional abuse, emPOWERment, Facebook Favorites, Post Traumatic Stress Disorder, PTSD, self-care, sexual abuse, spiritual retreats, survivor stories, V-Day, Violence and Abuse
Posted by Anne Caroline Drake on February 14, 2012 · Leave a Comment
Eve Ensler in Australia, 2012 Photo Credit: Paula Allen Valentine’s Day is on February 14. V-Day is a global daily celebration of love founded by Eve Ensler. She believes we should be creating and thriving rather than surviving and recovering. The V-Day movement is Ms. Ensler on a global scale: fierce, wild, unstoppable. Today Ms. … Read more
Filed under Violence Against Women · Tagged with abuse recovery, activist, domestic violence, emotional abuse, emPOWERment, Eve Ensler, One Billion Rising, self-care, sexual abuse, sexual assault, V-Day, Valentine's Day, Violence Against Women
Posted by Anne Caroline Drake on November 7, 2011 · 1 Comment
You want a job, right? – Herman Cain Sharon Bialek has a lot of courage. She wants to give a face to the women allegedly sexually harassed by presidential hopeful Herman Cain. She’s an exceedingly attractive woman, but I noticed that the national media has opted to publish the most unflattering photos of her. The … Read more