Posted by Anne Caroline Drake on March 24, 2012 · 1 Comment
I didn’t wear a hoodie yesterday because 1) I don’t own one and 2) I didn’t know it was the thing to do. Shared by Elizabeth Hope Hernandez Somebody asked on Facebook yesterday why the “best interest of the child” standard seemed to be rooted in Nazi values. In other words, why don’t those being … Read more
Filed under Religious Abuse · Tagged with abuse of power, activist, Alice Miller, best interest of the child, child abuse, dating abuse, domestic violence, Ellen Degeneres, emotional abuse, emPOWERment, faith-based response to DV, Gay Lesbian and Bisexual, Holocaust, homophobia, JC Penney, religious abuse, religious bigotry, religious freedom, Rick Santorum, separation of church and state, Social Networking, Starbucks, Tea Party, Trayvon Martin
Posted by Anne Caroline Drake on March 22, 2012 · 1 Comment
If an Orange County, Florida circuit court judge had been more savvy about domestic violence in 2005, Trayvon Martin might still be alive today. There has been a huge dust-up over Florida’s “stand your ground” statute without much judicial accountability for the judge who taught George Zimmerman that blaming the victim was a good way … Read more
Filed under DV in the News · Tagged with dating abuse, domestic violence, family court reform, George Zimmerman, gun violence, judicial misconduct, Orange County Florida, pit bull abusers, Sanford FL, Trayvon Martin, Veronica Zuazo, Violence and Abuse
Release your faith, knowing with assurance, that ALL circumstances will work in your favor today! – Mildred D. Muhammad Update: The Anderson show featuring Ms. Muhammad will be taped on Friday. Please stay posted for the air date. Yesterday was an exciting day for DV survivors! Who says one person can’t make a difference? Mildred D. Muhammad, … Read more
Filed under DV in the News · Tagged with abuse recovery, activist, Afghanistan, After the Trauma, Anderson, Anderson Cooper, books, DC Sniper, domestic violence, emPOWERment, faith-based response to DV, JBLM, Joint Base Lewis-McChord, Lt. Col. Robert E. Underwood, Lt. Col. Shawn Reed, Mildred Muhammad, parental alienation syndrome, PAS, Pierce County WA, pit bull abusers, Post Traumatic Stress Disorder, PTSD, Scared Silent, serial murders, survivor stories
Posted by Anne Caroline Drake on March 14, 2012 · 2 Comments
I don’t have a Ph.D. in Psychology, but I’m fairly certain the medical brass at Joint Base Lewis-McChord (JBLM) in Tacoma, WA couldn’t or wouldn’t recognize PTSD if it bit them in the butt. Lt. Col. Robert E. Underwood was ordered to undergo an involuntary psychological exam after he allegedly claimed to have hired a hit man … Read more
Filed under DV in the News · Tagged with abuse of power, CNN, Complex-PTSD, DC Sniper, domestic violence, gun violence, JBLM, John Allen Muhammad, Joint Base Lewis-McChord, Kara Underwood, KIRO, KOMO, Lori Kooiman, Lt. Col. Robert E. Underwood, Lt. Col. Shawn Reed, Madigan Army Medical Center, Mark Lindquist, MSNBC, parental alienation syndrome, PAS, Pierce County WA, Post Traumatic Stress Disorder, PTSD, sexual abuse, Staff Sgt. Robert Bales
Don’t get into a pissing contest with a skunk. – Down home wisdom Skunks are cute. They look all cuddly and sweet. But, it isn’t smart to get too close. The same is true of narcissists. There’s no getting away without feeling like we’re drowning in a bad odor. The analogy between narcissists and skunks surfaced after I read … Read more
Filed under Narcissists & Bullies · Tagged with abuse recovery, child abuse, domestic violence, emotional abuse, emPOWERment, malignant narcissist, narcissist, narcissistic personality disorder, narcissistic wounding, Paula's Pontifications, self-care, Therapy
Posted by Anne Caroline Drake on March 12, 2012 · 2 Comments
Forbes isn’t where I’d expect to see an interview with Susan Carbon, the director of the Office of Violence Against Women at the U.S. Department of Justice. Rahim Kanani asked her what she’d say in a commencement address to law students: . . .violence against women is not just a women’s issue, but one that … Read more
Posted by Anne Caroline Drake on March 3, 2012 · 4 Comments
I live in one of the most affluent counties in the U.S. The lights are on at the local domestic violence shelter, but nobody’s home. So, I shouldn’t have been surprised to hear at a Thursday morning breakfast meeting on homelessness that 80% of the homeless in our county are survivors of domestic violence. The … Read more
Posted by Anne Caroline Drake on February 14, 2012 · Leave a Comment
Happy V-Day, dear readers and subscribers! Wow! It is hard to believe this all started just three years ago today. You all have changed and expanded my life dramatically. Thank you! Bless you! It is hard to imagine my life without the friendships and professional connections we have created, nurtured, and sustained. … Read more
Filed under Journey to Joy (J2J) · Tagged with abuse recovery, artist's date, Bitzie, child abuse, Complex-PTSD, dating abuse, domestic violence, emotional abuse, emPOWERment, Facebook Favorites, Post Traumatic Stress Disorder, PTSD, self-care, sexual abuse, spiritual retreats, survivor stories, V-Day, Violence and Abuse
Posted by Anne Caroline Drake on February 14, 2012 · Leave a Comment
Eve Ensler in Australia, 2012 Photo Credit: Paula Allen Valentine’s Day is on February 14. V-Day is a global daily celebration of love founded by Eve Ensler. She believes we should be creating and thriving rather than surviving and recovering. The V-Day movement is Ms. Ensler on a global scale: fierce, wild, unstoppable. Today Ms. … Read more
Filed under Violence Against Women · Tagged with abuse recovery, activist, domestic violence, emotional abuse, emPOWERment, Eve Ensler, One Billion Rising, self-care, sexual abuse, sexual assault, V-Day, Valentine's Day, Violence Against Women
Posted by Anne Caroline Drake on February 7, 2012 · 1 Comment
Susan Cox Powell was a wonderful mother. She blessed her sons Charlie and Bradon with love which is a mother’s greatest gift for her children. She taught them faith, strength, and hope. They embraced each other with laughter, joy, and fun. Dorothy L. Nolte wrote “Children Learn What They Live,” and it seemed like a … Read more
Filed under Abuse Recovery · Tagged with abuse recovery, Children Learn What They Live, domestic violence, emotional abuse, emPOWERment, faith-based response to DV, grief recovery, grieving, re-parenting skills, self-care, Susan Cox Powell, susan powell disappearance