Posted by Anne Caroline Drake on May 25, 2012 · 8 Comments
Memorial Day has been gradually morphing from a celebration of war to a celebration of loved ones who are no longer with us. Cindy Waitt at the Waitt Foundation is writing a blog about the loves of our lives. The Waitt Foundation is a leader in preventing domestic violence, and I am beyond intrigued that Ms. Waitt has … Read more
Filed under Journey to Joy (J2J) · Tagged with abuse recovery, Burt Bacharach, Cindy Waitt, Complex-PTSD, dating abuse, Depression, domestic violence, emPOWERment, Gershwin Prize, Hal David, Joy Fitness and Style, love, Loves of Your Life, Post Traumatic Stress Disorder, PTSD, spiritual retreats, Therapy, unconditional love, Waitt Foundation
Y’all know I’m a huge Tyler Perry fan. Through his iconic character Madea, he is trying to teach women to become emPOWERed ~ to stand tall for ourselves ~ to develop an AT-tit-TUDE. In this classic photo, she’s got her cast-iron skillet out to teach her granddaughters how to say, “hell to the NO!” If … Read more
Filed under Violence Against Women · Tagged with activist, child abuse, domestic violence, DV statistics, emPOWERment, Madea, political activism, sexual abuse, Tyler Perry, VAWA, VAWA funding, War on Women
This tree with its twisted trunk stands where the Pacific Ocean meets the Strait of San Juan de Fuca, which divides the US and Canada. I wanted to visit Neah Bay because Sir Francis Drake had sailed there in his futile quest to find the Northwest Passage. Shortly after the man I loved deeply proved … Read more
Filed under Faith-Based Solutions to DV · Tagged with abuse recovery, child abuse, Depression, domestic violence, emotional abuse, emPOWERment, faith-based response to DV, family court reform, Golden Gate Bridge, judicial misconduct, litigation abuse, narcissist, narcissistic personality disorder, Northwest Passage, Oliver Wendell Holmes, parental alienation syndrome, PAS, pit bull abusers, Post Traumatic Stress Disorder, PTSD, safety plan, Sir Francis Drake, Tyler Perry
Posted by Anne Caroline Drake on April 27, 2012 · 2 Comments
On April 26, 2003, Tacoma (WA) Chief of Police David Brame shot his estranged wife Crystal Judson Brame in front of their young children in a Gig Harbor, WA shopping center parking lot. Det. Ed Troyer, who is spokesperson for the Pierce County (WA) sheriff’s department, knew or should have known what Chief Brame was … Read more
Filed under DV in the News · Tagged with abuse of power, Crystal Judson Brame, David Brame, domestic violence, Ed Troyer, KOMO, Pierce County WA, police misconduct, Rob McKenna, sexual abuse, Tacoma News Tribune
Posted by Anne Caroline Drake on April 20, 2012 · 1 Comment
This weekend I’m celebrating the quarter million visitor milestone for Navigating Unchartered Waters. The little blog that started out with just 20 visitors/day on V-Day, 2009 has grown up. Visitors now come from over 125 countries around the world! It is a dream come true. I feel profoundly blessed and humbled by your support and loyalty. … Read more
Filed under Journey to Joy (J2J) · Tagged with abuse recovery, activist, Barbara Bentley, child abuse, dating abuse, domestic violence, emotional abuse, emPOWERment, Ginny Nicarthy, Julie Owens, Karen Welch, Kit Gruelle, Mildred Muhammad, Nancy Carroll, Rita Anita Linger, self-care, sexual abuse, survivor stories, Vernetta Cockerham
Posted by Anne Caroline Drake on April 12, 2012 · 2 Comments
Release your faith, knowing with assurance, that ALL circumstances will work in your favor today! – Mildred D. Muhammad Mildred D. Muhammad, author of Scared Silent and founder of After the Trauma, is the ex-wife of D.C. Sniper John Allen Muhammad. She will be on Anderson on Friday, April 13. You can find out when Anderson … Read more
Filed under DV in the News · Tagged with abuse recovery, activist, After the Trauma, Anderson Cooper, books, DC Sniper, domestic violence, emPOWERment, faith-based response to DV, Mildred Muhammad, parental alienation syndrome, PAS, Scared Silent, survivor stories
It seems like every year on Maundy Thursday that I have myself a WTF moment and know exactly how Jesus felt in the Garden of Gethsemane. My mother is terminally ill, and one of the winning lottery tickets was sold in the tiny town where I was born. So, I’ve had a lot of chats this week with … Read more
I’m very worried about my Facebook friends and my readers. I am alive today because in 1992 I had the good sense to hide the judge’s arsenal of guns where he couldn’t and wouldn’t find them. Was he pissed? Oh, yeah. I didn’t care. I was safe. Today, the tables are turned. I live in … Read more
Filed under Violence Prevention · Tagged with 2nd Amendment, Castle Doctrine, child abuse, domestic violence, George Zimmerman, gun violence, litigation abuse, parental alienation syndrome, PAS, pit bull abusers, Stand Your Ground, Susan Cox Powell
Posted by Anne Caroline Drake on March 30, 2012 · 3 Comments
Powell Family Local Seattle news outlets are giving Pierce County (WA) DA Mark Lindquist air time to crow that he would have arrested Josh Powell based on evidence the cops in Utah had regarding Susan Cox Powell’s disappearance. What I want to know is why he failed to protect the Powell boys. Do not try to tell … Read more
Filed under DV in the News · Tagged with abuse of power, child abuse, Disappearance of Susan Powell, domestic violence, Ed Troyer, family court reform, Josh Powell, Judge Beverly Grant, KIRO, Mark Lindquist, parental alienation syndrome, PAS, Pierce County WA, pit bull abusers, Susan Cox Powell
Posted by Anne Caroline Drake on March 24, 2012 · 4 Comments
Shannon Wilson knows a lot about resistance to change. I remain devastated that her brilliant Rights for Mothers site was removed from the Internet. It had a wealth of information and resources for protective mothers. Sometimes allies sabotage our best efforts. They’ve got their own agendas and self-interests. I have been a champion for change … Read more
Filed under Journey to Joy (J2J) · Tagged with abuse of power, abuse recovery, activist, Change management, child abuse, domestic violence, emotional abuse, emPOWERment, Facebook, family court reform, litigation abuse, parental alienation syndrome, PAS, protective mothers, Rights for Mothers, Violence and Abuse